Conflicts with other people, or feeling alienated can apply to ANY situation, home, work, college, friends But it is not easy to comply with a friend, relative, partner or group on Everything.
Dissing has become a part of life, whether that means discounting someone, disrespecting, discrediting, disregarding, dismissing; or being rude or unsupportive - More on this HERE
On another Page here Doc talks aboutGroups and Cults, how easy it can be to get drawn into something, and how hard it can be to get away from the pressures or the environment itself - even IF one is FREE to See Doc's 'Let's Reduce Abuse' with more Videos, Books and Links. There is plenty of good Therapy and other help available, but things can go wrong in the situation: People may blame themselves for that, if they have already been through bad experiences. |
MISSING from HOME or Runaways
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DO OTHER PEOPLE LABEL YOU? You really can Pick-Your-Own Personality Parts or Roles rather than have someone else project their needs or Labelling onto you – hoping that you will comply! People have a need to be A PART of what is going on around them, other People and so on, and to keep themselves APART too |
Disabilities, Bullying & other Pressures Agencies providing a good range of support & information Visit Leonard Cheshire Disability Creature DIS-Comforts Website based on the Aardman animations of Creature Comforts characters at www.creaturediscomforts.org Bully Online www.bullyonline.org Domestic Violence, Stalking, Bullying |
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It's important to REALLY DON'T GET DRAWN INTO
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Self-Help & Useful Information Breathing Space (Your Problems, Self-help Toolkit, Worried About Someone), & More - www.breathingspacescotland.co.uk Also see TANSAL Seeking Help/Self-Help Pressures from Outside & Within Doc's BookList on Seeking Help
NEW on this SITE You can Make Your Own Theories! Problems are not ALL Your Fault! |
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Anywhere that we go for help or advice should clearly not make for a worse situation. Doc has prepared some Outline Questions you can use as a basis - or just make up your own You can look on the Internet along the lines of ‘therapy culture’, ‘talking cure’, or ‘psychotherapy concern’, and work out where any of it may fit for you If you do seek Help it should be the right kind - for YOU! |
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If you have tales which are relevant or funny even, let Doc know by email, making it clear whether they are Confidential or you think they could help others Let Doc know if you find any good Links, or somewhere offering constructive or creative Help |
'Doc Matrix' has Outline Questions about the help people get when they look for someone to help them - or use the Form |
National Stalking Helpline Launched
LINKS page at www.stalkinghelpline.org/useful-links/ |
Safety tips for being in contact both on and off-line
The Field Foundation site with Bullying information & Links www.bullyonline.org TANSAL Abuse Links for Stalking, Coercive Relationships, Domestic Violence at Safety Books 'Murder.com' - How death can be only a click away, by Christopher Berry-Dee & Steven Morris; 'Erased - Missing women, murdered wives' by Marilee Strong; 'The Sociopath Next Door' by Martha Stout |